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lost-lil-kitty:

lost-lil-kitty:

LOST-LIL-KITTY’S BAD DRAGON GIVE AWAY

to celebrate reaching 125,000 followers on tumblr I’ve worked some magic and gotten my hands on $100 of store credit from Bad-Dragon.com for one lucky follower.

All you need to do is reblog this post and be following both Myself and Bad Dragon!

You’ll also find two more chances to enter on my Instagram and my Twitter.

Give away rules

  • All entrants most be 18 years or over
  • Only one reblog/retweet/repost per person on each social media platform
  • The winner must be following both my own and bad dargon’s social media account on the platform they are entering in for the entry to count
  • This giveaway closes at 11:59pm GMT on April 1st 2018
  • Entrants must have or be willing to create a Bad Dragon account on bad-dragon.com to receive the store credit and be happy to share the email attached to this with myself. 
  • This is an international giveaway
  • This giveaway is in no way associated with Tumblr, Instagram or Twitter

The winner will be announced live on my public snapchat lostlil.kitty on April 2nd 2018! 

Good luck!!

Today’s the last day to enter this giveaway!!!!!! The winner will be announced tomorrow

Maintenance Discipline

instructor144:

A PM from a Follower, abstracted in the interests of privacy …

“Question. Do you think there are times when I could actually request being beaten till I cry?
In a sort of “mental health” kind of way?
Am I making sense?“

You’re making perfect sense. In some dynamics, the girl has to “act out” or “act up” to get a beating. It winds up being framed as “punishment.” with all the negativity that entails. Ain’t nobody got time for that! I prefer “maintenance discipline.” It offers several advantages:

It is regular and predictable. The Dom sets up a schedule – weekly, perhaps – where his girl will be disciplined, using whatever methods are most effective for her. There is no need for her to act out, because she knows she just has to keep it together until her next maintenance session. And for those really high-stress weeks, she can ask permission for an unscheduled one-off maintenance session.

It is not punishment. Punishment tends to bring a lot of negative emotional baggage with it. When done as “maintenance,” it is understood to be “therapeutic” (”mental health,” as you put it) which carries much more positive emotions and thoughts.

No drama. Many D/s dynamics seem to work as follows. Girl acts out. Dom administers punishment. Girl gets the pain she craves. Seems godawful drama-intensive to me! I hate acting out/acting up. If a girl needs pain, she should be able to get it without all that drama and bullshit.

It strengthens the connection. When her Dom gives her “the gift of tears,” and after she kneels with her head in his lap sobbing, the catharsis forges and strengthens that special intimacy that is the hallmark of the best D/s relationships.