Phrases like “that’s my girl” and “you look so cute when I hurt you” motivate me to push my limits even more than pain does. I need approval, I’ll do anything to please.
That’s so true. When I was dominated for real for the first time his approving remarks during the session gave me strenght. And at the end of it the way he patted my head – I felt so happy, complete. He was a pro and I was a newbie. He took it easy on me, naturally. Now the situation is different. My love is a newbie in all this and it is my turn to educate Him.
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